since im single now.. jus wanted to set my priorities straight and i want my next guy to have at least more than half of these things..(throw me a freakin bone here) yes i admit ive been w/ losers.. maybe im jus attracted to them..lol i dunno but hopefully the next guy is prince charming.. is that too much to ask for?!?!
(in no particular order, cept the first one)
sense of humor.. the guy needs to be funny or he aint for me ..i come from a very weird and funny family.. so he has to fit in.. he has to have a nice laugh also..
NO LIARS!! has to be trustworthy.. cant be shady.. i have nothing to hide and u shouldnt either!! if u dont show me ur wallet.. ur hiding sumthing!!!!
has to be confident and believes in himself.. im already inscure as it is.. i need a guy who can level me off and be the encouraging supportive type..
has to be taller than me.. thats easy (im only 5 feet tall)
has to be somewhat financially balanced.. no more dating bums.. no more scrubs.. he has to drive ..i kno this isnt a hard one.. but for me its hard finding a guy who freakin drives!! this is LA!! drive a car!
has to have goals and dreams.. has to at least be in school or finished.. he has to think for himself..
has to have a good relationship w/ family especially with parents.. its tru that u can tell how a guy will treat u when u see how they treat their mom..not just the mom.. i think its also how they treat the rest of the family
has to love who he is (whatever background, race, culture, etc they are) i prefer pinoys (hot ones..haha) just cuz they know where im coming from.. im not racist but other races dont mix well w/ me.. but i'll try.. *wink* haahaha
this goes w/ my preference w/ pinoys: has to speak tagalog.. i love a guy who knows how to speak tagalog.. i dunno why.. its jus sexy to me hahaha
has to have morals, values, a spirit.. has to go to church.. im a catholic school girl and i cant be going out w/ bad boys =P
has to love hip hop and R&B.. i love music esp my hiphop!! but they also cannot put down rock, alternative, punk, pop.. they just have to be ear trendy..
has to dress nicely.. i cant re-iterate enough:no bums.. lol a way a guy dresses tells a lot bout himself and his personality.. dress to impress is always nice and u can tell if they're trying to impress u.. he has to have some kind of style.. its kinda hard to ask that of a guy.. but some guys do have style.. so i want that guy!!
he has to nice shoes.. no payless shiiet.. i have a shoe fettish (i worked at footaction).. they need to have clean shoes also.. shoes tell a lot about a person too =)
has to love food.. im getting fat people.. i need someone to get fat with.. i love food.. esp pasta.. junk food also.. i love desserts!! cookies, ice cream, brownies.. yummy!! i like going out just to get dessert so they have to deal w/ my dessert runs.. lol
able to put up w/ me shopping all the time.. every guy can say they actually like shopping w/ their gf is a liar!! lol
has to know how to dance.. and freak and all that good stuff..haha cuz u kno if they know how to freak then they know how to... *ahem*
has to not be a homophob.. has to be open about things.. im not sayin be gay!! but im saying willing to have fun w/ me and my homie (r dawg, richard) lol i dont want a guy to be jealous of my relationship w/ my gay cousin (weird i kno but guyz get jealous over u richard)
has to no how to party.. drinks occasionally (not an alcoholic though..)
has to be athletic and fit.. i can be a couchpotato at times but i enjoy being out and doing sumthing.. but i dont want sumone whos overly buff and can hurt me w/ one handshake..
able to hold a damn conversation!! i hate guys who go.. so what u wanna talk about.. wtf is that!! guyz have a brain for a reason dont they? use ur intellect and entertain me... i need a guy with a working brain, who's street smarts and has common sense..DUH!!
thats all i can think of right now.. pls apply accordingly.. Current Mood: creative